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Creative Rituals for Self Care

Woman sits on a bench in front of a textile wall hanging

Photo of Sarah Darlene by Matt Nager.

During the colder months, when the days grow shorter and life takes on a more inward rhythm, I turn to creative rituals and mindfulness to stay grounded. Even though the holidays can bring joy and connection, they often stir up stress, overstimulation, or a quiet kind of sadness. Creativity has always helped me move through these states with softness, clarity, and a sense of release.

When I think about mindfulness, I sometimes think it’s more accurate to call it body-fulness, because it’s not just about calming the mind. It’s about coming into full awareness of the body and its wisdom. For me, it means remembering that I’m a spirit with a body, and that I’m learning to listen to what that body needs, moment by moment. That awareness helps me stay rooted, especially when life feels rushed or overwhelming.

Staying present while honoring change

My art practice is one of the ways I hold that awareness and process what I’m carrying. Some people have described my work, especially the fiber pieces made from my own clothing, as a metaphor for a snake shedding its skin or the husk left behind after a butterfly emerges from its cocoon. Over time, though, I’ve realized a more accurate metaphor might be owl pellets. My work is the hair and bones left after something essential has already been metabolized. I’ve taken what I needed from a former version of myself, digested the experience, and what remains becomes material. My old clothes stitched into fabric pieces, or paint strokes layered with memory, or fragments of sound and video. These are the hair and bones of what I’ve digested and released. Creativity gives me a way to let go with love.